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Saturday, January 29, 2005

'Everybody has been helter-skelter heading for the bottom line'

ajc.com > Opinion

Q&A / PETER C. WHYBROW, Author
'Everybody has been helter-skelter heading for the bottom line'
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> By RICHARD HALICKS
>The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
> Published on: 01/30/05

Remember the old George Carlin joke about the dimwitted seventh-grader asking questions of the parish priest in religion class? "Father, is it true that God's so powerful that he could make a rock so big that he himself could not pick it up?"

We've done some big rock-building of our own. An insightful new book tells us that we Americans are so smart, so industrious — and so profit-driven — that we've built a world so fast-paced and fabulous that we can no longer control it, or ourselves.

In "American Mania: When More Is not Enough," UCLA psychiatrist Dr. Peter Whybrow asserts that the mighty engine of our prosperity has overshot the rails and is descending into a train wreck of greed and unhappiness — a state known as dysphoria.

Dysphoria begins with happiness but quickly goes beyond it, veering into a sense of unease, anxiety and depression. That's what happens, Whybrow says, to people who are rewarded too much. Interestingly, he suggests that our immigrant heritage accounts for our compulsion to push for more. Migrants are by nature risk takers and reward seekers, and we've concentrated tens of millions of them in America.

"The migrant is extemely clever at sorting out complicated situations, especially when there's not much to work with," said Whybrow, British by birth but an American for the past quarter-century. "But we have no experience at working with affluence. We've created this extraordinary environment for ourselves, but it's totally different from anything we've ever experienced."

Talking About Cosby's Agenda


TALKING ABOUT COSBY'S AGENDA
Staff
Saturday, January 29, 2005

WHAT

For several months, actor-comedian Bill Cosby has been delivering a message: Too many young black men and women have devalued life and morals to pursue a life of low expectations and irresponsibility. Robert Franklin, a professor at Emory University's Candler School of Theology, will offer a response next week to Cosby's campaign. "Bill Cosby may be one of America's best comedians, but he sure knows how to make people mad," Franklin said.

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Wednesday, January 26, 2005

Why Do Married Men Cheat?

I know this may be a topic most people in this class may not want to talk about but it is just part of my curiosity. I was listening to the radio this morning and woman called in asking for help as to how to deal with here cheating husband? She wanted to know if she should leave him or if she should stay. My question is why do married men cheat and stay married? Any thoughts?

'McDonald's made me fat' case is revived

'McDonald's made me fat' case is revived

FOREIGN STAFF


AN APPEALS court has revived part of a class-action lawsuit blaming McDonald’s for making people fat.

A US court of appeal has ruled that a district judge erred when he dismissed parts of the lawsuit brought on behalf of two New York children

in 2003, saying it failed to link the children’s alleged health problems directly to McDonald’s products. The appeals judges said New York’s general business law requires a plaintiff to show only that deceptive advertising was misleading and the plaintiff was injured as a result. The rest of the dismissal was upheld.

The lawsuit alleges that tens of thousands of children have suffered health problems after being misled about McDonald’s products.

Is it really McDonald's fault?

Family Crisis - Seeing it Through

My husband is currently recovering from emergency brain surgery. He started getting sick about two weeks ago. I called him on a Thursday to tell him that I was on my way home from work and he told me that he wasn't feeling well. I knew then he was really sick because he never tells me when he's not feeling well. That night he asked me to stay home with him and take him to the doctor the following morning. By this time I knew it was serious. I took him to the doctor and the doctor diagnosed him with Vertigo. Gave him a couple of perscriptions and sent him on his way. As the weekend progressed he got worse. I called his doctor on Saturday and he brushed me off as being a paranoid wife. I ignored him and called back on Monday because by this time he was vomiting up black liquid. I rushed him to the hospital Monday morning only to find out that they found nothing wrong with him and couldn't explain where the pain in his head and the severe dizziness was coming from. Finally with the help of the good Lord a neurologist took a second look at the CT scan they took of him in the emergency room, which the radiologist told us was fine, and found that my husband had a large amount of fluid on his brain. You can only imagine what I went through and then I had to call his mother and father and tell them about the news. This was Tuesday night. He sat in the hospital for over 24 hours suffering for longer than he needed because the radiologist diagnosed him wrong. Thank God for the neurologist. By Wednesday morning he was in so much pain that he wanted to just rip his own head off his shoulders. This was a trial for me to go through because we have no family here in Georgia and I have an 8 and a 4 year old to care for and take back and forth to school. Mind you I'm a student as well as a full time accountant/human resource manager. No one in my family could get down here but his mother got on a plane and made it here in two days and his cousins were here by the weekend. I was so happy to see family. For a week I was alone. I had the Lord yes, but I really enjoyed having the family around. He is finally home and now I have to pick up where I left off with work, school, and home. It is not an easy task but I'll get through.

Sunday, January 09, 2005

All About Me!

I guess this was supposed to have been the first thing I was to post. Sorry guys. Well my name is Zeena and I've been married for ten years and my husband and I have two beautiful children ages 8 and 4. We moved here to Georgia from South Carolina in 2002. We are originally from New York and moved to South Carolina in 2000 because of my job. My job again moved me here. Yes, I'm missing NY very much. Everything here closes too early.:) My time is very limited to myself with a schedule containing a full-time job, school, husband (attending KSU as well), and two children. I'm very happy to be here in Georgia but long for the long winter snowy nights. I miss the snow. I look forward to working with you guys in my group and plan and hope to learn a little from each of you.